Tom Hardy is bisexual, although he likely wouldn’t identify himself as such. Well, welcome to America, Mister. In these parts, if it walks like a duck — well, you know the rest. The 32-year-old British actor — who’s film credits include Inception, Bronson and Star Trek Nemesis — lit up the blogosphere this week after he copped to having had what Wendy Williams would call “How You Doin?’” relationships in the past.

“As a boy? Of course I have. I’m an actor for fuck’s sake,” he tells the Daily Mail. “I’ve played with everything and everyone. I love the form and the physicality, but now that I’m in my thirties, it doesn’t do it for me. I’m done experimenting but there’s plenty of stuff in a relationship with another man, especially gay men, that I need in my life. A lot of gay men get my thing for shoes. I have definite feminine qualities and a lot of gay men are incredibly masculine.”

Tom is currently engaged to fellow British actress Charlotte Riley and has a two-year-old son with a former girlfriend.