Jesse Csincsak and Deanna Pappas, the couple who fell in love and became engaged following a whirlwind romance on The Bachelorette last Spring, are dunzo, according to a recent YouTube vlog from the heartbroken would-be groom.

So what caused Romeo and Juliet’s parting of the ways, well as Jesse tells it Deanna told him, “I love you but I’m not in love with you.”

Check out Jesse’s YouTube testimonial for more on The Bachelorette split.