Lindsay Lohan contacted her estranged father’s parole officer with an order that the recently released felon refrain from sending her anything in recognization of turning twenty-one last Saturday.

“My parole officer got a call from Lindsay’s attorney, saying I’m not allowed to communicate with her at all,” says Michael Lohan, who recently forgot how to spell the officially legal actress’ name.. “He considers it harassment, which is crazy, of course!”

“I’m going to play by their rules for the moment,” he says. “I just want what’s best for Lindsay and hope the negative influences around her will disappear very soon.”