Singer Mariah Carey regrets marrying Sony Music boss Tommy Mottola and wouldn’t do it again, although banging the married man is part of what made the former cocktail waitress a star.

The thirty-seven-year-old was discovered by Mottola and the couple were married for four years before finally splitting in 1997.

She tells Hello! magazine, “If I could go back again, I wouldn’t do it.”

Although she has had several high profile relationships with baseball star Derek Jeter and rapper Eminem, she insists she has learned her lesson regarding talking about her love life.

“I don’t talk about that anymore.”

When asked is she wants to get married and have a family she adds, “We’ll see. What I want is to have children in a good way, with the right husband, with the right family life.”