Jon Gosselin’s got 99 Problems, and this is one: One of Gosselin’s pot-smoking pussy peddlers is spilling the beans on the couple’s “abusive” romance on The Insider this week. Hailey Glassman, 22, met Jon after her plastic surgeon father performed liposuction on the previously portly Kate Gosselin; the pair began dating shortly after The Gosselins’ split last summer. But today, Hailey complains that Jon’s ousting from TLC, a breach of contract lawsuit, and the stress of his pending divorce from Kate have left the once mild-mannered Octodad frustrated and emotionally abusive.

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“We’re at a point now where I don’t know why I love him. He gets frustrated and angry and I’m the one who gets the brunt. He’ll call me and take his anger out on me,” the college dropout cries of the current state of her affair with Jon on The Insider Wednesday. “He has ‘mantrums.’ I shouldn’t have to put up with being emotionally abused. I cry and say why are you so mean to me? He takes it out on me. He talks over me so I can’t speak. Sometimes he has trouble with the truth and he will dance and dance around his lies.”

Hailey Blames Jon For Rift With Her Parents: “He’s driven a fork between my family and I. My parents want me to be a normal 22-year-old. It’s not a normal relationship. I love him, but as for my family and I, he needs to regain our trust. He lied to my mother.”

Hailey On The Public Backlash: “I met Jon in a bubble. I’d never seen the show. I had no idea. He begged me to go to France and I come home to chaos. People judge me before they meet me. I get threats everyday. I get called a home wrecker and a fat whore. People will stare or point. It gets worse every day. It’s taken a toll on me. Jon sees I’m not happy. At what point is it too much?”

Hailey On Kate Gosselin: “Kate wouldn’t say I was a home wrecker. I have respect for her,” she admits to the panel. “She’s like a lioness protecting her cubs. That’s her turf.”

Will she leave him? “I don’t want to leave him all alone. At the end of the day, I love him, but I dislike him at times. When I love someone, I would never hurt them.”