Former Bachelor Bob Guiney and wife Rebecca Budig of All My Children have split after five years of marriage, sources told PEOPLE.com on Wednesday. The spouses met when Budig hosted repeats of The Bachelor for ABC. Bob later found himself The Bachelor after missing out on love with former Bachelorrette star Trista Sutter.

“They’ve been on the rocks for a long time and lately it’s become clear that nothing is going to save this,” a friend of Rebecca told the mag Wednesday. “They’ve just grown apart and are no longer the people they were when they got married.”

Don’t cry for Bob. Word is Hubby’s already moved on and is happily dating a new woman!