Cameron Diaz is not having a relationship with a Hawaii surf instructor who previously dated Pamela Anderson, the surfer’s mom tells In Touch Magazine.

Judy Slater calls any claims that her son, thirty-four year old Kelly Slater, is having a relationship with the Charlie’s Angel’s actress, who has just found herself suddenly single, “ridiculous.” A thirty-four year old surfer? How pathetic!

“They have been friends for a long time,” said from her home in Cocoa Beach, Fla. “Every time somebody sees somebody else eating dinner, they think it’s a romantic thing. It’s silly.”

J.S isn’t sure if Cam is using Kelz to get away or not: “She might be — I don’t know. She just called him and asked if she could come over for a few days. It was nothing they had planned.”

Cameron met Kelly during a 2005 production trip to Hondurus for the MTV series Trippin.