Coley Laffoon has filed for divorce from Ellen’s ex actress Anne Heche in Los Angeles County Court-he is seeking joint custody of the couple’s son Homer (Homer?) and spousal support.

The photographer is citing “irreconcilable differences” as the reason behind the split. the couple met during production of a 2000 documentary chronicling Ellen DeGeneres’ return to stand up comedy.

A.H is rumored to have cheated on her soon-to-be ex with her “Men In Trees” co-star John Tupper-neither has confirmed or denied a relationship (give it a couple of weeks).